"Handling the dynamics between a husband and wife is truly a challenge that many face. Celebrities often find themselves under scrutiny regarding their personal relationships, with their domestic lives frequently becoming the subject of public discussion. However, there are indeed many inspiring examples of harmonious partnerships where love remains discreetly unspoken.
Recently, Li Kaifu shared his experiences with love and marriage, offering insights into the complexities and joys of a fulfilling union. He even humorously declared that once married, a wife's words should never be questioned.
True love isn't about constant gazing at each other, but about walking together toward shared dreams. The paths we choose may differ, but our eyes remain fixed on the same horizon.
My journey into marriage began with youthful infatuation, which blossomed from a blind date. I was just a junior back then, and within a year, my first girlfriend became my lifelong partner. That year, I was 21, and over the last 34 years, I've never regretted the decision to embark on this path. I’m grateful for my family's encouragement to meet her through a blind date, and for the unexpected joy it brought.
This piece is dedicated to my beloved wife and to those who dream of finding similar happiness. At the close of this story, I’ll share three guiding principles that have shaped my approach to marriage.
My love story started when I was 11, moving to the U.S. with my brother. Before leaving, my mom warned me sternly, “Don’t get involved with American girls.â€
As I grew older, my peers discussed their romantic lives openly, but I remained shy and awkward. By college, I was preoccupied with earning tuition through summer jobs, leaving little room for romance.
That changed in June 1982 when I returned to Taiwan for summer break. Unbeknownst to me, my family was planning my “life-changing event.†Months prior, my mom had arranged multiple blind dates for me. She was determined to find me a suitable match, and my sisters were tasked with organizing these meetings.
Before I left for Taiwan, they’d already compiled a list of potential matches. I was both excited and nervous about these impending encounters.
The first blind date was memorable. The girl I met expressed her frustration, explaining that she already had a boyfriend but was attending due to parental pressure. I left that encounter feeling disheartened about dating altogether.
However, fate intervened during my second blind date. The two families had a casual gathering, and it was then that I met the woman who would become my wife. Coincidentally, our fathers had worked together, yet neither had considered uniting their families until a mutual friend suggested it.
The gathering took place at a large dining table surrounded by a dozen or so people. The adults chatted animatedly about local politics, oblivious to the matchmaking underway. I noticed her sitting across from me—a quiet, elegant girl with long hair and a sweet demeanor. We were both too shy to exchange more than a few words that day.
Back home, my father asked for my opinion. Stammering, I admitted I hadn’t paid much attention. She later recounted her thoughts, saying she found me unapproachable and distant.
After Feng Bobo spread the word about our mutual interest, we began seeing each other regularly. Her quiet charm began to captivate me—her soft smile, gentle demeanor, and kind nature were endearing. We bonded quickly despite our lack of experience in dating.
One of our earliest dates remains vivid. She suggested watching a movie, and I pretended to review the newspaper. Jokingly, I recommended “Interior Decoration,†only to realize upon arrival that the theater was closed for renovations. Despite the mishap, we laughed and enjoyed the day.
From that moment, my heart was set. I spent the rest of the summer pursuing her, buying flowers for every visit and surprising her family with my frequent appearances. My sisters even supported my efforts financially, encouraging me to show my devotion.
Our bond deepened over time. I admired her selflessness and dedication to her family. Whether cooking for her grandmother or helping with household chores, she embodied kindness and grace.
By the end of summer, our feelings were undeniable. We promised to correspond frequently while I returned to the U.S. for graduate studies. Writing became a cherished ritual, sharing stories and expressing our longing for each other.
One day, inspired by her letters, I created a playful “love letter†by rearranging her words. Her reaction was amusing—she couldn’t stop laughing or crying.
In 1983, at the age of 21, I proposed. Though surprised, she eventually agreed, moved by my sincerity. On August 6, 1983, we married in Taipei.
Over the past 34 years, our marriage has thrived on trust and mutual support. She has been my rock, balancing my ambitions with her unwavering love. From sewing clothes to picking up fresh juice daily, her care touches every aspect of our lives.
To those seeking advice on marriage, I offer three principles: communication, respect, and compromise. These have guided us through life’s challenges.
May all who seek love find it, and may all who find it cherish it."
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